Luke 14:1, 7-14
On a sabbath Jesus went to dine at the home of one of the leading Pharisees, and the people there were observing him carefully.
He told a parable to those who had been invited, noticing how they were choosing the places of honor at the table. “When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not recline at table in the place of honor. A more distinguished guest than you may have been invited by him, and the host who invited both of you may approach you and say, ‘Give your place to this man,’ and then you would proceed with embarrassment to take the lowest place. Rather, when you are invited, go and take the lowest place so that when the host comes to you he may say, ‘My friend, move up to a higher position.’ Then you will enjoy the esteem of your companions at the table. For every one who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” Then he said to the host who invited him, “When you hold a lunch or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have repayment. Rather, when you hold a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
When Jesus was invited to dine at the home of one of the leading Pharisees, he noticed how the guests were choosing the places of honor at the table—sitting next to the host. In Jesus' time, the closer one sat to the host, the higher their status. In the first-century Jewish society, great importance was placed on honor and shame, with humiliation and embarrassment often considered worse than death. Thus, Jesus used the example of dining to teach them about humility and salvation.
The parable does not call for us to "retreat in order to advance," but rather to understand how to see ourselves before God. True humility, exemplified by the Son of God, Jesus, involves lowering himself to serve sinners and the sick, and encouraging repentance. He personally demonstrated a model of selfless humility for those who believe in him to follow. We need to frequently return to God to understand our true value and reflect on our original state. A humble person does not claim all the credit for themselves; they often express gratitude towards others and to the Heavenly Father, and they know how to give glory to God.
Humility is not just about not being proud or putting on a facade in front of others; it is, as Jesus said, about actively welcoming, serving, caring for, and helping those who cannot repay us, those who are lesser, and those who are truly in need. Jesus' words broke down the barriers of wealth and poverty. He often associated with sinners, the sick, and the poor—people who were overlooked and despised—serving them and sharing the gospel with them. In the eyes of the Jews, these people were considered unclean, living on the margins of society, and no one wanted to approach them or regard them as friends. Therefore, Jesus’ teaching at the banquet was not merely about table etiquette; it revealed the principles of the Kingdom of God. The poor, the crippled, the lame and the blind were no longer to be ignored, despised, or forgotten, but rather invited, valued, and accepted. In the Gospel of St Luke, Jesus clearly states that his mission is to bring freedom to those on the margins of society. If Jesus practiced this, then we, as his disciples, have no reason to reject this call.
Practice
When Jesus came, he brought a set of values that are completely contrary to those of this world. Our thoughts and standards are challenged by Jesus. What kind of world do we live in? Is it a world where God reigns, or a world reliant on human strength? Do we follow in Jesus' footsteps by caring for, accepting, and loving those who live on the margins of society? Or do we, like others, ignore, despise, or even bully these unfortunate individuals? Jesus emphasizes that when we serve others with a humble heart, God will also reward us with grace. Salvation is grace; it is given to the humble and the weary. Understanding this, we will be willing to love and accept those who are struggling.
Today’s Bible verses
“Your flock settled in it; in your goodness, O God, you provided it for
the needy.” (Psalm 68:11)